If you are reading this because you have recently had a breakup, you are probably an emotional mess. You are desperate to get the man you love back in your arms. The good news is, you don’t have to let him get away for good. There are ways to make him realize his mistake and beg you to take him back. Just take some effective steps and you will get your ex back fast.
When your boyfriend broke up with you, your family and friends were probably more than willing to offer advice. Some of them might have told you to get in his face and tell him you don’t need him. Others might have said to simply let him go and find someone else. Some of the advice they gave you was pretty close to what you should do.
You don’t actually want to go get in your ex boyfriend’s face, but you do have to make him feel that you don’t need him. To do that you have to let him go, but you don’t have to forget him. Male psychology will tell you that a man will always want what he thinks he can’t have. The breakup might have been caused by you becoming too available and your ex taking you for granted.
The whole plan to get your ex boyfriend back, is really quite simple. You just use male psychology to get inside his mind and bring him running back to you. When he broke up with you, your ex boyfriend had everything carefully planned and you were caught by surprise. The shock probably left you speechless and that allowed him to get away without a big fight. He was using psychology on you.
Your ex also knew that you would come after him screaming how much you love him and you can’t live without him. Knowing how you would react, prepared him to reject you and refuse to communicate with you in any way. Imagine his surprise when you reject him by ignoring him and doing nothing to try to get him back.
Your ex boyfriend will be shocked. He never would have believed that you could just accept the breakup and move on, but that is what he will see you doing. To add to his dismay, get with some friends and show up where he hangs out. Be dressed to the nines and flirt with some of the guys. Don’t ignore your ex boyfriend, instead give him a big smile and treat him like an old friend, then leave.
From that moment on, your ex will not be able to get you off his mind. By treating him like an old friend, you have shown him that you don’t need him as a boyfriend. This will make him take immediate action because you seem unattainable to him again. By using male psychology, you have made him think the way you want him to. Instead of letting him get away for good, you will get your ex back fast.