Do you feel you are in a hopeless, irreparable marriage situation? Does it seem like you are in a brink of totally falling apart? Well, I have some good news for you: it is possible to stop this divorce and save your marriage. Here are three basic steps on how:
First, it is important to establish the root cause of your problem. It is essential to see beyond the surface. That means, if your partner has not been talking to you for some time, you cannot point your finger at him or her immediately, without trying to find out the real reason for the behaviour. There might be a bigger issue beyond what you see on the outside. Something might be bothering them that have led them to act or react a certain way. You need to determine which problems are to be taken at face value and those which are symptoms of a deeper issue.
Secondly, communicate with each other. Share your opinions on what you think is the root cause of the problem. Discuss the matter objectively and with open minds. Avoid being defensive. Learn to hear your partner out. This way, you will better understand them and work towards a way to stop your divorce. In these exchanges, you really don’t need to arrive at a solution. What is important is sharing to each other openly what really bothers both of you inside. It is basically opening up to each other about your feelings and opinions.
Finally, after sharing your feelings and thoughts, it’s time to draw up an action plan to stop your divorce. You can make a list of the things you need to avoid and things you need to keep in your relationship. You can come up with creative ideas to do these things together. Be patient with each other in the process. Learn to give more than receive. In the end, you get the sweet fruit of your marriage by working together to stop your divorce.